Being the youngest or any age some one at one time or another thinks they have the right to tell you what to do. Being the youngest I get told what to do all the time an this is despite the fact of my age. You would think that once you hit your late twenties and early thirties this would be a sign to others that your old enough to life your life without being told how to life it. Well said to say your not. At least what I have come to understand is you are still the baby.
The thing is to make a stand. Don't let people boss you around you've earned your age. You've gone through those years some of us have gone through different life trials then others. But when it comes to it you have earned your right to call your self an adult and make your own decisions.
Speak your mind don't let those people walk over you. Set deadlines and make sure things are well stated, no questions to be asked if there is an instance of borrowing or buying. Don't commit to anything without this. Make sure your compensated for your time and effort. Your time is valuable don't be talked into anything else whether you would have been busy or not.
This is sometimes common sense but even I have been subject to falling for being taken advantage of whether the person realizes it or not. Its best to set ground rules and life by them so it doesn't happen in the future. - Cheers till next time
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